Take Her Man by Grace Octavia is a vibrant and engaging novel that captures the essence of modern relationships, heartbreak, and the resilience of friendship. Set against the bustling backdrop of New York City, the story revolves around Troy Smith, a successful and glamorous "It Girl" who finds herself grappling with the unexpected end of her relationship with Dr. Julian James, the man she believed was her soulmate. This narrative is not just a tale of romantic turmoil; it’s a celebration of sisterhood, self-discovery, and the lengths one might go to reclaim love.

From the outset, Octavia introduces us to Troy, a character who embodies ambition and beauty but is also deeply vulnerable. Her initial confidence is shattered when Julian, her boyfriend, suggests they take a break. This moment serves as a catalyst for the story, propelling Troy into a whirlwind of emotions that many readers can relate to. The author skillfully portrays Troy's heartbreak through vivid imagery and relatable internal monologues, allowing readers to feel her pain and confusion. The use of music, particularly the soulful tunes of Mary J. Blige, adds an additional layer of depth, connecting Troy's emotional state to the universal experience of love and loss.

One of the standout elements of Take Her Man is the dynamic between the three main characters—Troy, Tamia, and Tasha, collectively known as "The 3Ts." Their bond is a testament to the power of friendship, especially during challenging times. Octavia does an excellent job of fleshing out each character, giving them distinct personalities and backgrounds that resonate with readers. Tamia, the supportive friend, and Tasha, the sassy one, provide the perfect counterbalance to Troy's emotional turmoil. Their camaraderie is both heartwarming and humorous, showcasing how friends can uplift each other in the face of adversity.

The concept of the "3T Break Up Party" is a brilliant narrative device that not only serves as a plot point but also symbolizes the importance of celebrating life, even in the face of heartbreak. This tradition, rooted in their college days, becomes a ritual of empowerment for Troy and her friends. It highlights the theme of resilience, as they don their most scandalous dresses and hit the town, dancing away their sorrows. This aspect of the story is reminiscent of other novels that explore the theme of friendship as a source of strength, such as Waiting to Exhale by Terry McMillan, where female bonds are central to navigating life's challenges.

As the story unfolds, Troy's journey takes an